Make life yours.
1) you're f**king allowed to,
2) you deserve to live a self-actualized existence (we all do)
And 3) its simply more fun to live that way.
Move away from the judgement of others.
Share your message.
Strive to change your environment.
There's upwards of 7 billion people on this planet. And you have roughly 100 years to live (banking on medical progress here).
Spend your time with awesome people.. YOUR type of awesome people. You don't need to compromise.
Whenever it happens to me because that sense of discomfort and fear of judgment does come up from time to time I ask myself: "What is this resistance?" or "Why do I seem to care so much about what they think?"
That resistance that prevents you from playing all out.
Well, it is time to see it, the resistance, and still move forward anyways. Push through.
Your life is yours.
Live it your way.
People that like your vibe will stick with you.
The others.. well at that point who cares then right?
There is no "weekend" for me - because every day is a Monday. Every day is an opportunity to rock out.
Yesterday, Friday, I felt like kicking back for a few hours after a big week and so I met up with a friend for a pint at 3pm.
I didn't have any coaching calls in the afternoon. Just some admin to work through.
At around 4:30pm I then headed to a cafe, grabbed a flat white (awesome coffee - try it) and worked till 10pm straight --> because I felt in a flow state.
Do what you want to do and what needs to get done for you to feel fulfilled.
I was working on an invoice for one of my clients when I noticed this girl next to me working. She was really cute.
So I sparked up a conversation.
She was half Greek, quarter English and quarter Welsh.. cool mix 😎.
I think she was trying to impress me but my global nomad status is still intact (French/Belgian citizen having lived in Japan, South Africa, Austria, Germany, the United States, Israel, and now the U.K.).
We had fun chatting for a bit and then I got back into my work flow.
Today I'm on a bus headed to liverpool to watch the long-awaited Anthony Joshua vs Klitschko boxing fight tonight - 10pm - with a group of absolute lads.
On the bus with my laptop out.
Wifi is on. We are good to goooooo.
5 hours in the bus to knock out some work - touch up my podcasts, get back to my clients, fine-tune my coaching program.
You don't need to do anything in any way that you don't want to do it.
Make life work for you. Not the other way around.Seán SimpsononJames Thomas SeeryryGrant Firkinsns - I look forward to seeing you boys tonight - spending some quality time 👌.
That's what we do with my clients. We take a holistic approach to their life and narrow down on the points that need specific attention.
We work that mindset.
They take action from a place of confidence.
If you feel like you aren't yet playing full out.
If you feel like there is more for you in terms of putting the pieces that are important to you together.
If you want to make daily strides towards becoming the architect of your life.
If you want someone in your corner to tackle your business strategy with you.
If you want to put together a powerful plan for how to move closer to your ideal life and achieve your goals, a life designed by you and for you.
Well in that case..
The truth is you know your life won't change unless you do. Time to act. 😎
Have a great weekend! 👊
I got her number 💪!!